This got me thinking about a discussion and debate I had in my sexual class in college last quarter. The big debate topic my teach brought up (being a woman, not that it matters) was about “Friends with Benefits” was made by men. Roughly, because men are just trying to “get it in,” but most women are pleased by toys, especially top notch ones like this one mentioned. Also that 99% of women have faked an orgasm.
I obviously have my general opinions, but won’t go into specifics because it is a lot to type for now. For women it is more for the emotional attachment without the string attached (btw I still need to see that movie heard it was good) about it, but anyways in your opinion would you say that these toys have pleased you or your friends just based on the pleasurable level? I know from experience that emotions make everything more pleasurable and sex in general is more of an emotional thing for most women. If it is too personal I understand, I am not trying to be perverted. Especially after that Black Ops blog with that dick you hurt his feelings after he was perverted lmao.
Also what is your general opinions about friend’s with benefits and do you think it is a man created relationship, and why?
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I can honestly say that I have never faked an orgasm, and that I’m very public with the fact that a man has never gotten me off in bed before. I feel like maybe it’s not possible? But then it’s like, well … If this vibrator can do it, then WTF!?? Also, having sex with my vibrator isn’t about being in love with it, you weirdo. It’s about it feeling good. Isn’t that why you jerk off???
Anyways, my general opinion about friend’s with benefits is that it’s totally fine as long as both parties can handle the slight rollercoaster that comes with doing it. And no, I don’t think it’s man-created because obviously, I wouldn’t mind it (in the right circumstances). It’s HUMAN created.
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I never said anything about having any emotional attachment or being in literally in love with your vibrator silly girl. I meant loving the pleasure it gives you for “feeling good” strictly.
Do you believe that friend’s with benefits is more for the emotional attachment for most women though? not saying that guys never gain emotion from it, but typically are all about the physical.
Yeah, it seems always though with Friends with Benefits it usually ends bad, because one ends up usually FALLING for the other one. I would think it is more than just a slight roller coaster.
And, do you know anything about the Lelo Homme for men? I have read about it, and have been thinking about it, but me knowing myself and spots and being a guy I think a hand has worked well enough?