so, there’s this boy … * Sherilynn Macale (HeyCheri)

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May 24, 2010 in Dating & Boys

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pho

hey you :) I haven’t commented in a while. I’ve been lurking, but kinda busy with life stuff. <3

hmmm, unrelated to the topic, but someone was saying that you can eat whatever you want and be so skinny….just remember to keep up with the exercise, cuz I had a friend in high school who was skinny like you and ate mcdonalds and stuff all the time, and when she went to see the doctor, he said that she had ridic high cholesterol and she needed to stop eating like that and start exercising :/ it's scary cuz you don't think about that cuz you're like, I have a high metabolism and I burn off all the stuff I eat, but all that trans/sat fat will clog up your arteries and yeaaaaah haha. And I bet the people around you are healthy cuz they don't have your crazy metabolism :) it's good to be healthy, but I think you should also be able to pig out once in a while (and compensate by working out). life is boring with boring food all the time! lol.

it's nice to hear that steven does all the things that we talked about a guy doing (I don't think you remember cuz you have like 50 people talking to you about stuff)…I think this was back when J would never do anything and you said you'd be asking him why he wouldn't call you and he said he would and never did….something like that? anyway. it's nice that he does these things :)

anywaaaay, whatever happened to your thinkin about moving/going down to laguna? I don't know if you ever talked about it, but I guess I missed it if you did.

also, are you blogtv-ing it up anytime soon?

http://www.heycheri.com/ Cheri

@pho
Ohmygod. Lucky for me, my parents both have blood pressure problems and high cholesterol problems (which I know really isn’t that lucky, but my point is–) so everything in the house that’s accessible to me is all HEALTHY shit. And everything we eat is pretty much healthy shit as well. Especially since my dad has diabetes — so we don’t even use sugar in anything for the most part. And salt is just bad for you anyways, so nothing we have is over-flavored. … Sad, right?

So I get my fix every once in a while with junk food, fast food, etc. Like, I would love to live off of that. But the fact of it is, because my parents both have health problems? I rarely have access to that sort of unhealthy nonsense.

BUT THAT DOESN’T MEAN I WON’T GRUB IF I SEE IT. MMMMMM.

Anyway:
“it’s nice to hear that steven does all the things that we talked about a guy doing (I don’t think you remember cuz you have like 50 people talking to you about stuff)…I think this was back when J would never do anything and you said you’d be asking him why he wouldn’t call you and he said he would and never did….something like that? anyway. it’s nice that he does these things”

I KNOW RIGHT!! LOL!! That’s actually the reason that J and I broke it off. We were just both looking for different things. I actually have this huge conversation saved from when he and I decided to “end things” or whatever, and was considering posting it? But decided against it because I think he might mind. I should ask him if he’ll let me, though? :P

Anyway — yeah, Steven does everything J and G both don’t do, and MORE.
But who knows? We’re not even official yet and there’s still plenty of time for shit to get fucked up. WOOO!! Fucking relationships are so scary, omfg. I can’t take them. LOL. They stress me out. I’m glad I have my own life outside of a relationship, otherwise I’d probably go crazy just thinking about it all the time.

Like right now? I’m supposed to be getting ready for a photoshoot at this mansion with this model who wants to be in playboy, so we’re gonna’ rub baby oil all over her and get her naked. O_o … AND I’m hungover. AND I’m still kinda’ drunk. AND the night before? I spent it having bottles of grey goose poured down my throat by this nightclub owner (because I was doing event photography at his club that night shooting pictures of more drunk people) — ISN’T THAT FUCKING AWESOME. AND I’M GETTING PAID FOR ALL OF IT!! LOL!!

So basically.
I have more shit on my mind than just boys.
… Although boys do take up a good portion of my brain. LOL.

As foooor Lagunaaaa — I’ll still probably be moving down there in about a month. It’s actually Steven who wants me to move in with him down there. O_o … Which, I know, sounds freaking crazy. But I don’t care — I’m young. Life is short. Life is fast-paced. I love the hell out of that boy. And if things go wrong, it’s not like I can’t just move back up here, or move out of Steven’s place and get my own (because in SoCal, I’ll be making bank with my work & will spend most of my time networking, as meeting people is basically my job).

And yes!
I’ll probably be doing BlogTV!
Just a little busy right now, that’s all.

Omfg, though. I can probably get Steven in on BlogTV! We skype all the tiiiime. O_O! Do you think anyone would be interested?

GODDAMN I WRITE A LOT.

http://lifelittlesurprises.blogspot.com cici

YES! theres always a way if you really want it :) I am by you (and your blog!) all the way :D

YES i am! It’s been a year in january…like being exclusive (that was actually the first time we ever met face to face!). we talked for over 2 years before i ‘caved in’ to actually want to meet him. it was effin scary! it worked out pretty well, i think :P just the problem is we both live SOOooooooo far away from each other…and you know it takes a lot to make it work. I am totally surprise that weve made it this far. :) I am actually expecting him to come visit sometimes in Oct (cause we plan to celebrate our bdays together! :) ) i am pretty excited about that… he lives in WI and i havent seen him in like 1 year an a half…and you know it is hard. we both have our lives and stuff going on. and just talking to him via the internet is really what we have. but you know what i am glad he is working on this too :) as much as i am. youre gonna do o.O this :P.

but you know it is boring :P yours sounds much better :D hehe
.-= cici´s last blog ..Should I be JEALOUS?! =-.

http://www.heycheri.com/ Cheri

@cici
It’s so crazy how so many people are in long distance relationships around me, and everyone’s telling me how well it’s worked out for them. You’re like, literally the 5th or 6th person who’s told me this.

One of my guy friends was even saying how it was BETTER when him and his girlfriend were long distance, because when she moved in, he really ended up hating her. O_O WHICH SCARES ME. LOL. But whatever. It’ll be a little different for me and Steven because he’s working all the time (meaning we’ll barely see each other) and I’ll be working all the time as well.

.. Though I do most of my work at home, so it’s not that bad. XD

ANYWAY OKAY. Enough procrastinating. I have to get ready for this shoot. BLLKAJSDKLAJDKLJ.

http://lifelittlesurprises.blogspot.com cici

:D crazy right? i dont know a lot of people in a long distance relationship other than my uncle whos gf just moved to australia but its fun and its not fun at the same time. you know, and some work and some dont work. :) yay im the 5th or 6th! ;) LOL aww poor dude… i really hope if we ever live together we dont end up hating each others guts o.O that would suck.

you know thats always that voice in your head that keep asking if hes serious or if hes fooling around and you not knowing, so the trust issue is always on thin ice. i believe in karma so what goes around comes around and if theres something i dont know im sure ill find out about it sooner or later… not to trust 100% but i get effin jealous too…esp of the exes…gah how much i loath it. but guess you just gotta live with it. i was single for 6 years before bumping into him online and he had ex-gfs who cheated on him so him actually wanting this to work really say something about a guy :)

:P i imagine it could be scary being with THAT person 24/7 but you know you learn from each other that way, what ticks you what ticks him you know, then youll be one of those married couple :P hehe joking! ;) im sure you wont hate each other…i think it could be fun!!! and more boy posts from you (thats what i am predicting for the future hehehe)

LOL ok ok go! good luck!! :D

http://www.heycheri.com/ Cheri

@cici
“i believe in karma so what goes around comes around and if theres something i dont know im sure ill find out about it sooner or later”

DUDE!! I swear to god, I was having this conversation with Steven not two days ago. Haha.

And yeah. We’ve both been there in the cheating ex’s department. :/ Commitment is a rare thing, and I’m still searching for it! *SIGH*

“then youll be one of those married couple ”

AWWWWW. Hahahahha <3 So cute. Makes me bite my lip and smile thinking about it. LOL. But we’re not gonna get married, omgosh. That’s like, fairytale status. Fairytales aren’t reeeeeal.

pho

actually, my dad is similar to that..he had cholesterol problems, and also has diabetes…so I’m wary of what I eat, but I have to incorporate exercise cuz I don’t have the high-metabolism-gene. Ugh, but my weakness is pho (lol obviously) and popsicles. I don’t think I’ve had McD’s for at least a year. And the last time I had something there, it was the ice cream lol.

haha, I just remembered seeing a ton of junk-food-related items on your twitter. Makes me jealous that I can’t eat it, but man not eating junk food for a long time makes the one time I eat it taste even better lol. sighhhh i miss junk food. my bf and I are both being healthy so we both drool when we see taco bell but we help each other to be good hahaha. (also it helps that when we eat together, I give him a ton of my food so I eat less lol)

yeah, relationships are scary, but if it’s not work, it’s not going TO work (nugget of wisdom from Grey’s). it shouldn’t all be easy because then when something hard comes along, you’re not prepared cuz you’ve never faced. little obstacles are like knights preparing for battle…not to say that there will be a battle, necessarily, but you strengthen yourselves so you’re more prepared and have a more united front.

haha, I’m pumped to see the photos! sounds cool. and kinda like this which totally freaks me out except for the last part which makes me laugh every time: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O4Gj_2i_qwM

lol, and yeah, laguna is good for networking, i’m sure. that’s where LC got her start, after all :P lollll and you’ve already got your own “Steven” LOL

and, unrelated, have you ever seen THIS commercial? It’s HILARIOUS. I actually didn’t get it until the very very end hahaha –> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WAk77Kr_OwQ

http://www.heycheri.com/ Cheri

@pho
AWESOME quote.
“little obstacles are like knights preparing for battle…not to say that there will be a battle, necessarily, but you strengthen yourselves so you’re more prepared and have a more united front. “

http://lifelittlesurprises.blogspot.com cici

But its so true… :D i solely believe in it…and well my better judgement. but you know mostly when youre so into the other person it tends to get cloudy and you cant see very well…*SIGH* sucks being in love :P LOL its one of those topics that you NEED to sit down and talk…or at least like give em a warning like ‘oh if you ever cheat im sure hell gonna find out about it so you better not even think about it’ :P im the type that like if you ever cheat on me theres no second chance… o.O i dunno how i can be that firm in that decision but thats just me.

yeah commitment is very rare for me…sometimes and i mean most time its me. if something doesnt feel right or that guy have unflattering smile id say ‘see ya’ :P im freakinly afraid of commitment but well im committed as of now and it took a whole lotta months to convince me :D i think its good to search for it…whatever rocks your boat

LOL i meant youll be just like one of those married couples :P i have a friend whos been living with her bf for years and i swear they act like one of those married couple… not a bad thing tho. they love each other so much wonder why they arent married yet? hmmm… LOL yeah its good since i dont think couples like Dharma and Greg does exist…if they do that would be fun! :D marriage is a whole different topic…when i get there ill tell you all the dirt :P

but im sure youll make a hellot of sexy wife :D
.-= cici´s last blog ..Should I be JEALOUS?! =-.
Nora

Haha, yes, “dunderhead” is a choice insult xD

Yeah, it sucked…luckily I just bared my freakin soul to him about everything (like how I was under pressure from about 50 different peple, several deaths in the family and a bunch of other shit) and we’re okay now =)

OMFG, trust is so tricky =/ I’ve dealt with losing it and getting it back….I’ve been on both sides of the equation, too so…yeah. It sucks when it gets fucked up.

<3
ashleydid

Can you talk more about sex (actual sex, vibrators, etc), I really learn from you!

http://www.heycheri.com/ Cheri

@ashleydid
Er, like what?
I’m abstinent.

XXY

Hey Cheri,

Just an update. I left a comment earlier saying I started dating openly recently. Anyway, what would you think of a guy whose number is higher than 10? I remember in a prior post that you wouldn’t want a guy who just bangs whatever comes his way. Would you believe him if he said that most of the girls he’s been with has been from a meaningful relationship?

I mean, if I had to break down a meaningful relationship by time, I would typically say it doesn’t even have a chance of being meaningful unless they’d been together for at least 2-3 months, and that would require a lot of nonstop back to back relationships for him to have gotten his number of meaningful girls that high…

Sorry for the rant. I don’t have friends to talk about this to. Or I guess I don’t like talking to them about it. (They’re stubborn, sometimes judgmental, and pretty inexperienced anyway.) You are amazing for blogging your life so openly. ;)

Thanks!

http://www.heycheri.com/ Cheri

@XXY
I just don’t trust guys who sleep with freakin’ everyone. :/ I don’t. I can’t see someone with standards doing that. I mean, maybe it would be different if I was the same way and had slept around as well, but I haven’t. So I’d really like somebody who is on the same “level” as I am in terms of “sluttiness” or something. Harrr!

And I dunno — 10 seems right on the cusp of things. Like it doesn’t seem THAT bad.
Now, 20-something? 30-something? That’s pushing it.

XXY

It seems so hard to find a guy with a low number who isn’t in a relationship, hasn’t been broken by his previous relationships, or assertive enough for me to like.

Thanks for the feedback, Cheri. Good luck with your guy! I hope things are going well.

http://www.heycheri.com/ Cheri

@XXY
Things are going well, for sure!
I kind of lucked out with him. He’s not a slut, we’re getting “serious”, and … He’s so cuuuute, ehehhehehe.